I was thinking today about other examples of the same sort of interaction in a different context-- ways that you might convey that same never-gonna-see-you-again idea to people you interact with in various settings. Here's a short list:
- The post-interview pat on the shoulder and "Good luck in your future." (I got this one today, which is what got me thinking about this topic in the first place. Pretty sure I'm not landing that job.)
- Writing an actual handwritten letter to someone, under almost any circumstance. (This may signify a dramatic change in your relationship rather than a complete separation. I guess yearbooks fall into this category.)
- The follow-up break-up. (Break-ups always, always happen in at least two parts. Person A drops the bomb on Person B, who goes home, gets mad/sad, asks to meet up one last time, and then demands the reasoning behind the break-up, which leaves everyone feeling like crap. It happens every time.)
- Closure cake (A unique application of the principle described above.)
- The end-of-the-date "high five". (Not even a side-hug can send a message THAT clear.)
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"Takk for alt", Mountain West Conference.
Not really though. =)
real estate agent
Letter from the attorney
Taking the time to actually delete a number from your cell phone.
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